Finding Dad
I was about to meet my bio father, Joe, for the first time. My heart was in my mouth as I climbed the steps to his front door in Carlsbad, New Mexico. I knocked on the door, and this avuncular old dude opened it.
He’d been expecting me, but he looked as thunderstruck as I felt.
“My God, it’s like looking in a mirror,” he said.
“Yep, if I was an old dude with a big white mustache I’d look just like you!” I replied.
We sat down, had tequila, and caught up on the previous 38 years. He’s a great bullshitter. And we really do look alike:
Me at 7, Joe at 7
Me at 45, Joe at 19. Extra thanks to photographer Brett Colvin for recreating this pose in a special shoot.
Joe and me together in 2012